Thursday, 28 July 2016

WHY I SLEPT WITH MY GRANDFATHER


Early last year, Kenyans were surprised after a 56-year-old lady moved to court to sue her step grandchild aged twenty four for snatching her husband. The family conflict had allegedly been developing for 3 years before spilling out. Grace Mwende accused Florence Nduku of insulting her through a sequence of text messages while allegedly beginning an intimate relationship with her husband, Daniel Mwongela who is 61.

 Nduku is facing six counts of misusing a communication device. A number of the text messages received between July twelve, 2013 and early 2015 cited Mwende as an “ancient hag” who could not meet the old man’s needs and that she lost her sweetness a long time past,” therefore it absolutely was her (Nduku’s) turn to get pleasure from the old man’s “honey.” She also reportedly abused Mwende that she was a witch and husband snatcher who once prostituted herself in five-star hotels. She denied the accusations and was released on a KSh100,000 bail or bond of KSh300,000 with a security of the same amount. But in an astounding flip of events,

Nduku has changed her mind in court and confessed that Mwongela proposed to her and she was quite sad that she had to share him with her granny Mwende. “I acted out of anger and I’m terribly sorry. We were sharing a guy with Mwende. He (Mwongela) had promised to marry me,” Nduku stated in her mitigation. Their supposed secret relationship came to be exposed in 2011 simply 3 months after Mwende, a boutique owner and Mwongela got married in a very shocking church ceremony in Machakos.

 Mwongela who worked in Malindi, was used to visiting Mwende in Nairobi on a monthly basis, however unknown to her, Nduku who was amongst her bridesmaids throughout their wedding was secretly eyeing the old man. Nduku worked at her grandmother’s shop where her fight with a colleague over a gent triggered her to quit her job to focus on her relationship with Mwongela in what later intensified to insulting text messages directed at her granny. Nduku told the court that she has been in an intimate relationship with Mwongela and it might be tedious to attend court sessions daily. Besides, she claimed to be in the process of getting ready to get out of the country for unknown reasons and thus her alteration of plea and surprising confession. Nduku was penalized KSh10,000 in 5 counts or serve 3 months in prison for all the counts. She was then cleared on one count, a ruling that Mwende claims to be suspicious, considering the initial bond terms.

 “As at now, I don’t have the strength to forgive Nduku for what she did to me. It hurts a great deal and i don’t expect i'll even forgive her,” Mwende told The Nairobian. According to Mwende, the text messages were gross and ruined her relationship with different relations and she said “some elders have since approached me that I need to forgive her though it's difficult since I raised her like my very own child.” She further stated that, “The hurting part is how her father defended her and told me he's able to receive dowery from Mwongela. For now, i'll simply take a chance before embarking on future course of action and possibly find an alternative choice to get justice.”

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